Marriage

Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. This is one of the most misunderstood aspects of life worldwide. Marriage is an institution and who ever enrolled in such institution has entered for life. marriage is an institution, its a school which we will never graduate from untill death.its a school, so the couple must continue to learn of each other till death.marriage is not a try and see game but rather is a life long business. I want to discuss on the basic,the foundation of marriage. Marriage is built on the foundation of love not vision or prophecy. You don't marry because your prophet told you that is your wife or husband. Marriage is built on true and sincere love. many find it difficult to differentiate between Lust and Love. And for that reason they enter into marriage for the wrong reason . A wrong marriage is the beginning of Hell on earth. Let me correct this saying love at first sight. There is no such thing. You can't love a stranger and entrust your life in his or her hand in one day. Love is like a seed in a farmland. The seed doesn't just grow into a mature plant in one day. Love is patient. I will should you scriptural love and I want you to truly search your heart and see if you have that God kind of love in you. 1 Corinthians 13:4 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, 13:5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; 13:6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; 13:7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. If you don't have this character in your life and marriage then you need to do a serious work. Lack of true love is the major reason why many marriages are not working today. So for those who want to get married and those already in it. my big question to you is. What is your relationship built on? The earlier you know the better. A healthy marriage is one built on true love.